It’s normal to wonder why cancer strikes us or someone close to us. We often hear why me? Aside from age and known factors that could increase your risk of developing prostate cancer, no one knows why you, in particular, have the disease. You weren’t a target, just like other men in the same situation as you.

Cancer is a complex disease and it is often impossible to know why things are happening the way they are. Some people face this question throughout their cancer journey. Others believe they got cancer because of something they did or didn’t do, or worse because they deserve it. It’s absurd! Everyone’s body is different and at any age, cancer can happen to anyone.

Yet, I had no risk factors…

Why me? What did I do wrong? What did I miss? These are all legitimate questions. Scientists and researchers are working to find out why some people get cancer and others don’t. Despite all the challenges cancer presents, they are making progress in preventing, detecting, treating and surviving the disease. Still, they don’t have an absolute answer as to why you were diagnosed with prostate cancer (at least for now).

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It may also be helpful to remember that knowing “why” will not change the course of the disease. Asking yourself this question over and over can hurt your ability to adapt. Your precious energy would be more useful if it were used to help you and your family cope with illness. Try to focus on the present moment and how you can best adapt to the situation you are about to experience. If you find this difficult, it might be helpful to talk to a counselor, your doctor, a close relative, or a friend you trust.

You are not alone

Over time, you will find that you are not alone in your fight against cancer. Your health care team, friends and loved ones are also fighting with you. 

And remember: there is no right or wrong way to feel your emotions. Accepting them without judgment is a good way to start your journey of healing from this disease. Be confident!

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Take the time to visit each of our pages on this website, as well as our YouTube channel, in order to get familiar with the disease, our expert lectures and webinars, our section on available resources, the support that is offered to you, our events and ways to get involved in advancing the cause.

You have questions or concerns? Don’t hesitate. You can chat with us or contact us at 1-855-899-2873 to discuss with one of our nurses specialized in uro-oncology. They are there to listen, support and answer your questions, as well as those of your family or loved ones. It’s simple and free, like all of our other services.

Pages on our site that might interest
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Prognosis and survival
Side effects 

PROCURE blog articles that may enlighten you
Every week, we publish a blog article. Here are a few for you.
Prostate cancer in families – Talk about it!
Understanding Your Biopsy Report
Prostate Cancer: Facing Your Diagnosis
Is it safe to delay my treatment?

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